dating

the perils of online dating

Posted by admin on July 07, 2009
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me:  dude, hope she doesnt get her hopes up  on match

 

 V:  i started the conversation by talking about your online dating adventures
how you canceled one because her was hardcore REd Sox fan, and I feel that was totally fine
 me:  not the nazi
?
 V:  we were talking about recent events
i though she knew about the nazi
plus, hearing that story will keep her from EVER dating online
 me:  Ha!
what about the guy that took me to target to get diapers
or asked me if my boobs were real
or whats up with the dyke shoes?
or the gay guy who needed a fat girl as a beard
 V:  shhhhhhhhhhh
 me:  or the guy who just got out of prison!
or the guy who “emergency phone called me”
or the “I thought you would be shorter” guy
or jackhammer man
or the guy who “forgot his wallet”
or the guy who just wanted to get maaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrried
 V:  that is not specific to online dating
you might have run into crazies regardless of the online thing
me:  this is true
but
she should be warned
heh
oh and she should also be warned that guys on online dating are shallow and stupid
just like in real life
just quantified better online
“what do you mean I have been viewed 560 times and no one has emailed me, not even a wink”
thats fun
V: i am looking forward to stories
and still waiting for you to write your book
you know, with all that spare time you have.

online dating hates me

Posted by admin on June 06, 2009
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Ok, so I admit it, even though eHarmony rejected me Im on a few other online dating sites.  Match.com matched me with my housemate, and BNE. I was surfing around okcupid, because Pistons met her BF there. I hit random match. AND BNE CAME UP.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

What is worse, is okcupid lets people see who has checked them out. Even worse, my profile pic is the pic of me BNE took. What? its a good pic.

Going underground

Posted by admin on February 11, 2009
dating, Friends, life, school / 1 Comment

With the added stress of classes being more demanding (and having more whining in them) this semester. And Mouses moving to Mondays. And just freaking stressed out by personal interactions with people. And worried about stepping on toes and pissing people off and the blah blah blah of everything. As well as work becoming more demanding, and the need to meet more people, becasue I’m tired of friends with no time or being the only single person, or just being judged in general. And my medical problems. I am going underground a little while. I will be still posting on my blog. And still updating flickr. And occasionally updating facebook. But in the flesh Im withdrawing. I kinda give up. I need to do well in my career and in grad school and I have never been socially functional in alot of things and its something I want to ignore for now…

If you need me… call or email. Otherwise Ill prolly see in eventually.

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hair

Posted by admin on January 26, 2009
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When i get restless I change my hair. This weekend, I ended up with a razor cut and 4 colors. It was the most Ive ever spent on my hair. Im still getting used to being able to style it on my own and getting used to blonde being in there along with red.

Sigh. Grad school starts tonight, and with that I might end up pulling out what little is left of my hair.

Im nervous and screeered.

btw. Had date saturday night. did not go well. Will not be dating again for a long time. Apparently I really am undateable.

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