Bree!

Hey, there. Just wanted to apologize on behalf of Jez for what you went through there yesterday. You’re a good woman. Would you consider coming back, if possible??? xxoo

No, I do not want to affiliate myself with the vast majority of people on there. They are cruel, and not all that bright. I had my housemates read the thread, and everything I said was taken way out of context. I will not be food for women who wear abuse on thier sleeve like a badge of honor, nor will I subject myself to that KIND OF ABUSE, again. I know I can be blunt, and harsh, but I know when Im not wanted by most. I was honestly shaken by the meaness of the women there… And I was reminded why I didnt go for help. I dont need that shit. Please let those who want to keep in touch that I can be contacted here. In a week I will be removing my account from jez.

Thanks for sending me a heads up. I just checked the comments from your profile and saw what happened and I’m really dismayed. I had no idea. I don’t like it when people there gang up on anybody, but you were measured and polite and clarified your opinion without insulting anyone. You weren’t even the only one with that opinion, not that it should matter. I’m really sorry you were banned. The editors can be capricious with opinions they don’t like and commenters often chime in without seeming to have read everything,especially if they see a pile on. I understand you being shaken and not wanting to return, but if you change your mind, you do have friends there who can deal with divergent opinions shared with respect.